Love has always been cherished in so many ways ,in so many countries, in so many races, in so many religions. It has been celebrated for centuries after centuries ,books have been written, poems have been dedicated by thousands of poets, authors, writers, starting from William Shakespeare to Thomas Hardy, love has been defined as holy grail. For centuries it has been a huge debate who has an upper hand in expressing their love for one another, is it women or men? From a mans perspective he has always been a better lover as women are more complicated, but I think women are better at expressing their feelings as they are more romantic and mature and know how to handle things more better than men themselves, whereas men tend to make things more jumbled up. Women have the tendency not to say it but she constantly gives hints to the man she loves, so that at least he takes the steps forward. These signs are not hard to catch, specially if the men concentrate on the women’s gestures, attitude, behavior towards them. These signs are
SHE BECOMES SHY WHENEVER SHE SEES YOU: This sign is a common physical reaction when a woman is in love. Suddenly, she will become more timid when it comes to interacting with you. Note also, her cheeks flushed when you happen to make eye contact with her. To ensure this sign, talk to her in a face-to-face conversation. If she looks more nervous than usual, it is likely that she is in love with you.
SHE INTRODUCES YOU TO HER CLOSE FRIENDS AND FAMILY: Whenever there is a birthday party, a get togather, she thoughts of you first to accompany her to these special events, where she might introduce you to her friends and family, even if as a friend, this means she wants you to be close to her loved ones so that they approve of you. This will allow you to know her family and friends better, and that’s exactly what she wants, she wants you be a part of her small world.
SHE PRIORITIZES YOUR LIKES AND DISLIKES: If you go to a restaurant she will order your favorite dishes without even asking you because she knows religiously what you love to eat, if you go to shopping with her she will choose the shirts of your favourite color, and the same goes for buying her own dresses, she will buy the clothes for her that probably appeal to your eyes, dresses of your favourite color, cut, shape etc. If this doesn’t give you a hint that she loves you I don’t know what else would. She would try to avoid the things that you don’t like, for instance she would not wear any dress that you don’t like, nor would she even order a meal that you hate, even if it’s her favorite dish, only because she is trying to make you happy, and choose your happiness above hers.
SHE BECOMES CHILDISH INFRONT OF YOU: There are some women who actually act childish when they are in love. They will not hesitate to raise their tune of their voice, scream, jump around, or giggle loudly to draw your attention. Note also their speaking style, which at first glance would sound warmer just like a small child.
If she shows this spoiled, childish attitude, the woman actually expects a proper response from you. Approached her, and take the role as her guardian. Take her hand while crossing the street, rub her head, and show that you are ready to protect her.
SHE WILL CONSIDER YOU HER FIRST PRIORITY: NO matter what she will call you, text you, and no one else, because you are the one who has been constantly ruling her mind. She wants you and only you when there is an emergency, that’s because she trusts you and she wants you to be around her, understanding her, supporting her, encouraging her through her good and bad times, as she thinks that you are a positive influence in her life which will make tougher situations easy for her.
SHE WILL PRIORITIZE YOUR DECISION: She will listen to your opinions and emphasis on it as she thinks your opinion is worth the try, as she loves you. Your opinion is really important to her. She wants you to take interest over her life, wants you to be a part of it, so that you feel the importance in her life and take control of it.
GIFTS: Giving a gift shows that a woman considers you as someone special. In any of her gifts to you, -whether it is birthday gifts, Valentine gifts, or simply a souvenir from her trip- there is affection and intimacy from her. Note also her attitude when she gives that gift to you. If there is a personal letter given along with the gift, there is likely a probability that she has some feelings toward you.
SHE TRIES TO DRESS ACCORDING TO YOUR TASTE IN ORDER TO IMPRESS YOU: Note also the style of her dress and hair. If you realize that a woman tries to impress you with their dresses, hairstyle, accessories, and her physical attractions, it is likely she wants to get your attention. Not just dresses, you can also observe on the use of make-up as well as .
SHE SHOWS INTEREST IN YOUR HOBBIES: You might encounter a situation when suddenly a woman starts to listen to the songs that you like or ask a lot of questions about your hobbies. She also asks you to be involved in your favorite activities and happily shows enthusiasm towards them. Be cautious boys, this might be a sign that she is in love with you.
SEEING YOU MAKES HER HAPPY: A woman would show a bright facial expression when she is with her loved one. Just try to observe her eyes, smile, and her gestures. If she looks more cheerful and her eyes shine brighter it is likely a sign that she enjoys to be at your side. Note also if she talks and laughs a lot, it can be a significant sign that she loves you. When she is sad or depressed, try to approach and cheer her. If you notice that her expression suddenly becomes brighter, it is likely that you are the man who is expected by her.
SHE WANTS TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR LIFE: If a woman is attracted to you, then she would likely ask a lot of questions. Those questions ranging from small things such as your hobbies and favorite activities, to bigger matters such as your future plan. She would also demand further explanation if she feels that your answers do not satisfy her curiosity.
When you realize that a woman is attracted to you and starts to ask a lot of questions, try to give an answer that could impress her. However, it is important to keep in your mind that you should always be honest with your answers. Don’t lie just to impress her, as it has bad impact in the long run.
SURPRISES AND SPECIAL GESTURES: She will go to any height to impress you or make you happy, let it be, arranging a surprise birthday party for you, buying you customized and expensive gifts, doing your assignments or taking down notes she will provide you handmade cards and gifts, just so you know how special you are to her. These little things prove that what you mean to her.
BEING BIASED AND DEFENDING: She knows what you did was wrong, but still she will support your thoughts and decisions, if someone speaks something negative about you, she will defend you no matter what, even if that person is her close friend or family, she will protest for you against all odds.
SHE IS THERE FOR YOU 24/7: Even if its 2 AM: She will be beside you during your bad times leaving all her other priorities behind to support you, to encourage you, to make you feel how important you are to her, this is only possible if a women loves you truly and deeply.
THE INTENSENESS IN HER EYES: Women who are in love will try to steal a glance at your eyes. In some cases for a shy woman, her face will turn red and abruptly turned away when you realize that she was watching over your face. Try also to look at her straight in the eyes when conversing. If you feel there is some kinds of electricity that goes behind your back while looking into her eyes, it is most likely that the chemistry between two of you has been established. It’s just a matter of time to confess your feeling toward her at the right moment.
Understanding women does not require a special technique. If you see these signs from a woman that you love, then do not hesitate to express your feelings towards her. Just one thing to remember, it is not easy for a woman to fall in love. She thinks analyze thousands of times, before she chose you to be the ultimate man in her life-therefore, you should not miss the opportunity when she gives you these signals.